Action. It does a male good.
repost from 8/08, guest hosted by Karen.
Action cures depression.
Action cures failure.
Action cures helplessness.
Action cures hopelessness.
Talk is cheap.
Talk is for players.
Talk is for bullshitters.
Talk is for cowards.
Action talks.
Action works for business, too.
http://www. youtube. com/watch?v=KSLpFCNLW2g
Waiting is female energy. Action is male energy. Men who don’t act lose power.
I disagree that that you cant control how you feel. Fuck that. That is not the DT way. The DT way is the more you are in touch with your feelings, the more you affect your feelings, the more you transform your feelings (from bad to good), the more powerful (and happier) you are.
When you become victim to your feelings, you will sink into a depression.
The minute you become helpless, hopeless, victimized, wronged, etc, ask yourself, “what can I do this second to make myself feel better?” and I don’t mean medicate, ie no drugs or alcohol, as that will just prolong your pain by masking it.
Ask yourself “what action can I take that will make me feel even 5% better?” Then, do it.
Lets say you just got fired. There are three names that you could have called over the last 4 months that you procrastinated calling because you were lazy. Okay, so, call now. call the 3 names now. even if you don’t get through. Even if you have to leave a voicemail. Just call. (then, follow up.)
Men are meant to aggress. Men are meant to hunt. The hunter doesn’t wait for the lion to come around. The hunter approaches the lion. He gets his tools ready. He gets the timing right. He minimizes his risk as best he can. He tries to shoot for the most optimal conditions he can in order to kill the lion.
Baby steps. There are a series of baby steps that a man must take to kill the lion. There are a series of baby steps a man must take to get a new job. There are a series of baby steps that a man must take to win over his woman. Stepsâ¦action. A series of small steps leads to final action. All of that leads to successful actions which, in turn, spell CONFIDENCE, 1st C.
Men are like arrows. They see their object of prey, and like an arrow, straight and narrow, they aim and shoot. Even men’s biology is like an arrow. Their bodies are straight (not curvy like women) and narrow. Even their penises are straight and the tip is like an arrow. Its purpose is to penetrate. Much like a penis, a man’s purpose is to penetrate an obstacle, be it the lion, work conditions, or a woman.
The next time you feel on edge, antsy, upset, uneasy, remember, YOU DO control your feelings. Why? Because I said so. Take that second, that second, to make a difference and change how you feel. Sure, the obstacle might be pretty big and it may need a series of small efforts to reach your goal or rectify something that has gone off-track. The good news is you can take little steps to even feel a tiny percent better. The cool thing is as you do more, the better and better you will feel, not only about the situation, but about yourself overall.
The worse thing a man can do is sit on the fence. Fence sitting voids you of all of your power. Fence sitting leads to drug or alcohol abuse. Fence sitting is for the cowards and the lazy. This is not the place for DT students. DT students act. What is fence sitting? Its when you know you need to make a certain action, but don’t listen to your gut and do the opposite of that action.
Lets say you have a dream and your woman, every day of her life, chooses to kill YOUR DREAM. You know you should let her go because not only is the stress killing you, but you get further and further away from attaining your dream as she does nothing but bad-mouth it every step of the way. You stay because you like regular sex or because her brother is your best friend and you don’t wanna deal with it. This is serious fence sitting. Real men follow their gut. Their gut would tell them this woman is taking you further away from actualizing your dream and to make that cut. Either you must tell her to zip it or get her out of your life.
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Heres the dealâ¦it DOESN’T MATTER WHAT DECISION you make, only that you make a decision. That step will lead you to another step which will lead you one step closer to solving the problem.
Action cures depression. What one step can you take today that will take you one step closer to realizing your dreams? Get it done.